As a result they offer more stability and reliability – traits that have been programmed through evolution to elicit attraction in women.
Similarly, if she’s insecure and feels she doesn’t deserve an older guy, your belief that age means nothing will help her look past her own perceived shortcomings and feel more deserving of your affection.
What this means is that when you meet a younger women in a situation like this, make a point to get her phone number early in the interaction.
That way when her favorite song comes on and she abruptly runs off to go dance with her girlfriends, you’ll still have a chance to meet up with her later on.
Instead of trying to meet her at her level, bring her up to your level.
Give her a taste of that more mature, grown-up life that she doesn’t experience when she’s with her friends.